I knew a lady once who told me she’d never forgive another person for what they did to her! I said, “What if they came to your house and got on their hands and knees and begged for your forgiveness?” She said, “there’s no way!”
Unforgiveness is like a cancer and it will eat you alive. It will destroy your relationship with others and it will destroy your relationship with the Lord!
What if the Lord didn’t forgive us for the things we did to Him! You might say, “Well, I’m not the Lord!” You’re right, you’re not, but if you’re a Christian you are to be like Him!
You might say, “I’ll forgive, but by golly I’m not going to forget!” Let me say to you then, “That’s not forgiving!” When God forgives, He forgets!”
Ephesians 4:32, And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake has forgiven you!