There were many people standing around the cross as Jesus died. Some were spitting on Him and some were crying for Him. There were a faithful few that stayed until the end and most of them were women.
One disciple had betrayed Him, one had denied Him and the others were scattered to the four corners of the city trying to hide like a pack of rats.
Jesus didn’t want their sympathy, He wanted their faith, and that’s what He wants from you and me!