Romans 12:9, Let love be without dissimulation. In other words don’t be a hypocrite. Don’t pat another Christians on the back and say something you don’t mean!
Abhor that which is evil. This means it’s OK to let people know you hate sin. When someone is being underhanded in the church or at work it’s OK to bring it to light. Our churches would be in a whole lot better situation if this were done today! What some people want to do is sweep sin under the carpet! This doesn’t cut the mustard as you well know!
Cleave to that which is good. We as believers are to be identified with good things rather than shady practices! God hates sin and loves the sinner, and that should also be our attitude! Remember, it’s not about me, it’s not about you, it’s about HIM!